Have you ever prepared something towards this person, even though you're not really that close, but you did your best to prepare something on his/her birthday, to surprise him/her but the feedback you get is something not good? Like he/she is thankful for the efforts you've done but for him/her it's already too late so it's just a waste.
I have just recently. I honestly don't want to blog it but I think I might share since I can't move on. Although this person didn't directly say those comments towards me, someone did and that person can't take it either so she had to tell me because she find it unfair. I would like to understand this person situation but what about me then?